Friendship and Love

   Be a friend or to fall in love? Or what about to fall in love to a friend? Is it possible? Many people obviously will say no. But I try to say yes to this question. You can think I am crazy and you could have reason for that. But it can be only a different point of view.

    I always liked to see things with no normal eyes. The most of people look to the things with a directed look. Like an eagle looking for and rabbit, in a hunt. People hunt things. They search for things, for other people, for themselves, for news, for good feelings, for a better way of life, for a better method of to life, things like these.

    Friendship can be stronger than to fall in love in many aspects. Our soul is touched when we fall in love. The presence of other person in our lives touches the  bottom of our soul. Our emotions are modified. They come to the surface of our life and they make us talking, feel things normally we don´t do.  In many cases we becomes weaker.

    Although, when we make a friendship, we feel stronger, because our emotions are brought to the surface of a softly way, depending on our needs. When a friend expresses an emotion, he is talking about a solid feeling. He is not thinking about sex, but in the needs of our soul. When we talk to a real friend, we feel he is capable of listen us just wanting our welfare, although we are searching and exporting our deeper feelings. Friends are to hug, to listen, to stay together or not, to percept we are feeling inside us, even we don't express it.

    So, that is why I say friendship can be stronger than a sentimental relationship. Obviously in a strong relationship we have to be the best friend of our girl or boyfriend. This would be the perfect form to relation between two people. Let's try it.

Helvécio